When some people are in love, it's like their brain stop functioning. Lol. They do abnormal things. we should always allow our brain to control our emotion. Don't be too excited; don't be carried away. Here are the things you must not do before marriage:
1. Do not use your guy's picture as your profile picture on Facebook, twitter, etc.
2. Do not use your girl's picture as your profile picture on Facebook, twitter, etc.
3. It is very wrong for you and your guy/girl to put on the same type of cloth (same uniform) and be walking down the street together with uniform cloth. I think it is only married people that should do that.
4. It is not proper for you to fight over your boyfriend/girlfriend; esp publicly.
5. It is not proper for you to use the picture which you and your guy/girl snapped together as your profile pix on Facebook. Only married people should do that.
6. Do not cohabit, i.e a guy and a girl should not live together in a house if they are not yet married. As a lady, when you pack out of your parents house and start living with your boyfriend, I see you as a harlot and a stupid girl without shame. how dare you sell yourself too cheap? If a man did not pay your bride price before keeping you in his house, he will never value you and your parents.
7. There is nothing wrong in a guy spending money on his girl, but the girl should not take it as if it is the responsibility of the guy to feed her, cloth her and sponsor her. As long as the guy is not yet married to you, whatever money he gives to you is just an assistance. It is not his responsibility or duty to give you money.
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¤•¤Ladies do take special note of #7, and stop making demands of boyfriends like if they are your bank account or like it's their sole duty to do so... Not until they are married to you. A wise man does not wait for his girl to ask before helping out with basic things; even before he marries her•••

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